Attractive women never seem to be attracted “nice” guys? Just like me, I’m sure you’ve had attractive female friends that always seemed to date “jerks”… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What’s going on here?
Women don’t base their choices of men on how “nice” a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them. To men this often does not seem logical, and our logical mind does not like to accept thing that dont make sense. it’s hard to ACCEPT… but GET OVER IT or you’ll NEVER have the success with women that you want.
Being nice doesn’t make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION. And being NICE doesn’t make a woman CHOOSE you.
Without tension, there can be no attraction. “Sexual Tension?” Well, there’s a reason it’s “Sexual.” Nice guys try to eliminate ALL conflict, ALL tension from their interactions with women because they mistakingly believe that by doing so, the woman will like them.
Starting to make sense, logically its not right to be nice
When you can create that tension, you will be taken out of the “nice guy” category. Be it by a devilish smile, or a suggestive comment that get’s the wheels in the girl’s brain churning, there’s something there that is NOT complacent or safe.