I mean, no wonder women sit around with each other and complain about how hard it is to find an interesting guy in this world.
What are guys doing this? because they approach a first date from the perspective of “I don’t want to screw this up”.
They try to present themselves as “nice guys” who love mom, have a good job, and are stable. Somehow, guys have gotten the idea that if they act nice, buy dinner, and talk about the same old things that everyone else uses to bore women to tears that they might get lucky and score (or at least get a kiss and a second opportunity to buy dinner).