First dates are the most enjoyable part of meeting women. It’s where two people who barely know each other are alone and isolated with a cloud of sexual tension lingering. Here’s a few tips to turn that sexual tension into a relationship and sex when you meet women in Australia and Sydney​

The most important rule when it comes to dating

  • A date is NOT an INTERVIEW.
  • You’re not applying for a job (and neither is she), so don’t act like it.
  • This is an incredibly funny observation when you are out at restaurant and a typical Sydney date
ONLY ASK QUESTIONS OR TALK ABOUT COMMON, BORING, PREDICTABLE TOPICS LIKE SCHOOL, WORK AND FAMILY IF YOU HAVE ABSOLUTELY RUN OUT OF ALL OTHER OPTIONS

Learn to Attract the Girl

Lets not bore the girl into attraction that. Attraction happens when there is energy, spice, humor, mystery & being a man. So if you want to create ATTRACTION instead of BOREDOM, you’re going to have to learn a new way.

 

Let’s be interesting-  more talk about drama, violence, scandal, and comedy that is painful to one of the parties involved.The trick is that you must remember you’re not there to impress her, and you’re not on a job interview. The more you act nervous, stilted, and uncomfortable…like you’re trying to impress her and get her approval… and like you don’t want to say anything that might make her disapprove of you, the less likely you are to trigger that all- important ATTRACTION inside of her.

I mean, no wonder women sit around with each other and complain about how hard it is to find an interesting guy in this world.

What are guys doing this? because they approach a first date from the perspective of “I don’t want to screw this up”.

They try to present themselves as “nice guys” who love mom, have a good job, and are stable. Somehow, guys have gotten the idea that if they act nice, buy dinner, and talk about the same old things that everyone else uses to bore women to tears that they might get lucky and score (or at least get a kiss and a second opportunity to buy dinner).

Sound familiar….

Lets look at 7 thing you should try to achive on a first date

STEP 1

PICK THE RIGHT DAY

Don’t try to have a first date on a weekend (some girls work long hours and so you may have to compromise), especially if you haven’t kissed her yet. Weekend dates can send the wrong message that you value her too much and are ready to give a “primetime” night to someone you just met. Instead stick to Monday through Thursday for the first date. My favorite day for first dates are Wednesdays, because what girl is busy on a Wednesday night? Some women only go out on the weekend so use your instincts and get the girl out on a date

PICK THE RIGHT VENUE

Sure you can have great conversation by taking girls out on coffee and ice cream dates, but if your goal is to have a relationship or have sex incorporate a drinks date. Drink help women to open up and be less nervou on the date. take them to small bars with charcter and a theme.
Women love to hear stories about the history of places. If you’re in an interesting part of town, tell her the story of how the area came to be named, or why the city was built where it is. And if the story involves a tale of love and/or scandal, all the better. Take her to interesting places

STEP 2

STEP 3

PREPARE

There is no way you can memorize enough routines for a date that lasts two hours or more, and even if you could it would
be a stupid waste of energy. You’re going to have to be REAL and this is where I hope your vibe is fun and interesting. If not then
dates will be a challenge.Quick Tip: On your way to dates call up a couple friends and shoot the shit with them for a while. Since first dates are mostly a talking affair, you want that part of your brain to be ready. The worst thing you can do is lounge around at home all day in front of your computer and then go out on a date without having done any talking beforehand.

RELAX

It’s natural to be nervous, especially with the pressure of getting laid hanging over your head. But I guarantee you she is more nervous than you are, simply because she’s a girl and is programmed to stress about everything. I can’t be the only person who knows girls who can’t even go to a public
bathroom without a friend.The more you have your internal game straightened out and believe a girl should prove her value to you, the less you will be nervous yourself. Think of her on a stage, twirling and spinning for your pleasure. Whether this is reality or not doesn’t matter… just believe it.

STEP 4

STEP 5

FOCUS ON ESCALATION

First you start with innocent touches on her forearm or shoulder, then you graduate to touching her hands after the half-hour mark, then you wrap your arm around her waist. Next thing you know your heads are mere inches apart and the kiss is a foregone conclusion.
I believe that kissing results more because of touching than because of interesting conversation. Think of this way: conversation makes her feel comfortable with you touching her, and touching makes her feel comfortable with you kissing her. Sometimes you can kiss a girl with touching alone.
Be Careful to not get grabby or

GO FOR A KISS

Even if you don’t think you will get the bang on the same night, it’s still prudent to go for it. Even if the first date goes well, you can’t make the assumption there will be a second. How about if her long lost ex-boyfriend calls the next day? How about if her friends cockblock you? Then you’ll kick yourself in the ass that you didn’t push it.
As you’ve probably noticed, most of the work in having a great first date is done before you even show up. A little preparation for them goes a long way, especially if you consider that it takes quite a bit of work to meet a new girl and then get her out. Don’t blow it by not preparing yourself.

STEP 6

STEP 7

BE LATE

At least five minutes late, though I try to hit ten minutes. You want to stir up some anxiety and fear that she’s being stood up so that she thinks about her insecurities (“Am I not pretty enough?”) instead of yours. It’s a little mean but it happens

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