Do you need to master techniques before you can meet women in Sydney?
You’ll hear guys saying things like, “Hey, you need to learn these techniques. You have to know this method. You have to read these books. You have to take this PUA bootcamp.” There are plenty of people who are going to teach you techniques, routines, lines, and methods to use to get laid. Thats fine, most guys who come here are going to need alot of that stuff.
What most guys won’t teach you is to have a mindset that’s going to make this journey in bettering yourself with women. When you’re new to meeting women or have zero experience with women (or both), its easy to get caught up in the idea that you have to master every technique and every method that you see.
Its easy to get caught up in Guru worship spending thousands and thousands of hard earned dollars to learn techniques and things that you can’t apply because you don’t have the field experience to back up the techniques. Basically just throwing your money away to have a guy yell at you to get in set and picking you apart when you come back, I’ll do that for free. The key guys is to go out into the field and meet women. Take one of our classes to help speed up your progress and stop thinking about all the opportunities wasted.
The Alpha Lifestyle team aims to help men improve their social skills and meet beautiful women. Our sophisticated approach is tailored to the individual, working closely to achieve your goals. We coach a natural method to meeting women. To help you gain success you must first start approaching women.
Debates have long been held in the community between mass approaching versus selective approaching, the so-called “shotgun versus sniper” theories. I’m not even going to go into the direct vs indirect method on this page. I personally tend to take an in-between route, an “assault rifle” route, if we continue those analogies. Waiting for everything to be aligned, such as you receiving an approach invitation or for conditions to be “perfect” is a way to severely limit your opportunities. On the other hand, mass spam style approaching is a good way to waste your time and get you blown out en masse, which will immunize you from any pain of rejection, but is good for little else.
Just as importantly, however, is the fact that mastering cold approaches makes every other approach easier. If you become skilled at building relationships with people you’ve never met before, imagine how much easier it’s going to be to charm the pants off (figuratively and literally) the cutie that your buddy’s been trying to introduce you to for months!